1) Have a vision (go further than simply having goals) : you must know what you want to become, you must feel it, you must have a vision of your life as you want it to be.



2) Manage your emotional state : the way you feel in the moment is very important, the positive attitude is always more productive than the negative one.
Don't be afraid to act, act in the face of fear don't run away from it. Most successful men acted in situations where most of people would have run away.


3) DESTROY your limiting beliefs, it's a very important key, your reality is subjective, everything is perception. That's why stop judging things. You can't succeed if you think like ˝ I'm not enough .... ˝ or ˝ I don't have... so I can't .... ˝ STOP IT.
Drop your limiting beliefs.


4) Strategy - you must have a plan, what do you count to do to achieve what you want ?

How long did you stay under the shower to find this ???

PW

Starno,

Thank you sooo much for taking time to give this great advice. I have read your post and feel empowered to change and ....,..... wait a minute, wait .. this is the forum of a porn site, what the fuck are you talking about ?

Starno wrote:1) Have a vision (go further than simply having goals) : you must know what you want to become, you must feel it, you must have a vision of your life as you want it to be.



2) Manage your emotional state : the way you feel in the moment is very important, the positive attitude is always more productive than the negative one.
Don't be afraid to act, act in the face of fear don't run away from it. Most successful men acted in situations where most of people would have run away.


3) DESTROY your limiting beliefs, it's a very important key, your reality is subjective, everything is perception. That's why stop judging things. You can't succeed if you think like ˝ I'm not enough .... ˝ or ˝ I don't have... so I can't .... ˝ STOP IT.
Drop your limiting beliefs.


4) Strategy - you must have a plan, what do you count to do to achieve what you want ?

No, the 4 most important things are

1)LUCK
2)LOOK
3)LUCK and LOOK
4)LOOK and LUCK

All the rest is only american motivational bullshit to steal money from ugly losers.

that is bullshit you tell to yourself to justify your failures.

You are posting on a forum of a guy who is said to have had anal sex with over 5000 women.

Do you think he got lucky 5000 times? Do you think he just walks down the street and women come up to him and ask him if he would do them the favour of destroying their anus?

You always need to get yourself into situations of possible positive outcome, that is how "luck" happens. If you don't play, you don't win.

If you read me you know that I don't consider PW a successful man,in particular a successful man with women because if he's successful with women it's only because he pays in a way or in another.

He's a successful in his job, of course.But why??

I speak about what I remember about his interviews (if I am wrong please correct me)
First of all he was a policeman and while working he met a person who gave him the opportunity of becoming a photographer (LUCK).
Then he worked for mode and porn,obviously because other people gave the opportunity to him (LUCK) and there he met berth milton and worked for Private (SUPER LUCK)
Furthermore he has had the LUCK of starting his career in the golden age of porn.
Infact now with the grow of porn in internet it would be very difficult to repeat his success (nowadays it's even difficult to become a successful photographer because so many people want to do that job).So,again LUCK of be in the right place at the right moment.
If he hadn't met that person when he was a policeman he probably now would still be a policeman.
Probably a successful policeman but you wouldn't consider him as a God because you're deceived from LOOKS.

Of course you can object me that he was talented as well and you could be right.
But talent without LUCK is nothing.
And talent is not quoted among the 4 most important things above.

First of all he was a policeman and while working he met a person who gave him the opportunity of becoming a photographer (LUCK).

NOT EXACTLY !!! the only lucky part was to be at the place where this beautiful girl ( later my second wife ) came that day !!!
But she was with a rich man as boyfriend and I was a simple cops ...
So if I had listened my partner who told me to not move and I had not the balls to go to speak with her ( she hated the cops ! ) I will never got the possibility to become her BF and meet this famous star Coluche, later, by her way. And Coluche yes gave me the chance to work on showbiz but only because my images was good and in true the real guy who helped me the most is called Stephane Collaro...
And my entrance to Sipa press with Madonna photos was not the chance, it was 12 hours of suffering stand up with feet in dirty water, and then running to the agency in the night and been the first with the nearest pictures of the stage ...

Then he worked for mode and porn,obviously because other people gave the opportunity to him (LUCK)

NO !!! You have no idea how I get my job at Bauer Group !!! I wanted keep it for my book but in fast explain, I see an annonce for photographer need and I called but it was already two weeks they have engaged the 15 guys they need. Anyway even if they told me no on the phone I went there with my book. The photo director didn't want meet me, so I asked where was the restroom and finaly went inside the building. When I found his office I banged the door and coming in. He was already stand up because going somewhere. He was upset, pushed me in the corridor and told me to go away. I decided to go back in his office and seat down waiting him. he came back more than an hour later, he was very angry that I came inside his office and wanted call security. I just asked him to watch my book and promised to go after. He did it very fast and told me : this is just pictures of people that I can get with a simple phone call to Sipa, Gamma, Sigma. Sorry I'm not interested. Then I gave him my visit card and go. The next day he called me and asked me to come with my photo material. When in front of him he said this :
" Son, I'm sorry for yesterday I was in a bad day. We have our team of photographer but I see you're a guy who has balls, so idea is like this : I will send you every day in binome with another guy to shoot a report. You must beat everyone until day 15th and then you'll be engaged, if I consider any of your work in inferior, I never want see you again. " "I said OK, when do I start ? " "Right now. You take a badge at the reception and you run at metro Auber. There is a fashion défilé, from a new designer called Christian Lacroix with the Esmode school. Our official photographer is already there ... Good luck "
I went there, see the photographer at the end of the podium shooting only the défilé, I went non stop behind the stage, right, left stage and even shoot lot of models changing their clothes. And I make this photo director called Marcel Maystre became a man I will thanks until my death !!! I beat everyone and get engaged two weeks later ...

there he met berth milton and worked for Private (SUPER LUCK)

NO !!! I was doing report for Hot Video and wanted get Berth Milton, father, the myth, the man who has created the first porn magazine of history in 1965. But since many years he didn't want give any interview to anyone. When I did the report with Tereza Orlowski in Hanover, I met a man called Rolf Rham which was the Scandinavian distributor of VTO pictures. He told me that he was a good friend of Michel Ricaud and we went diner together. Then he started speak about Berth Milton, his old friend from the 60th. It makes "gling" in my head and I started to make a plan. I proposed to do a report about his distribution company and he accepted. When I went there I knew Private just produced his first video ever, the Private Mag n°1. I asked Rolf if Private could be interested I promote this production, he said Private could be happy of this opportunity but no way to meet the boss, only Joachim Vallach who did the video. I said I knew Jo since many years ( he was my neighborgh in Paris ) and no need to be in Stockholm for that. So Rolf give me Anett, the Swedish girl on the box cover. And I started a report about her ( fucking her a bit ) and finaly proposed Rolf to tell his friend Berth Milton that a very pretty Swedish reporter want meet him.
First he said no and then asked who is this girl. I told him my plan, I knew a mega bomba fashion model speaking french that I had fucked in Paris 2 years before and I asked her if she could help me. She liked the idea, Rolf too and he proposed to the most complicate man on earth to see this reporter. He said " bring her, I will get a blow job and will not answer any of her question". But when Saskia arrived with me, he became like a little children and don't even take care of my presence. I was supposed to be the photographer, she had translated my french question in Swedish and of course it was perfect. I get the longest interview he ever did. He was so much under charm that he gave her the magazine 100 not even on sale, and cry for a diner with her. She said she will do it, but never did ...
Then when we went out, Rolf was here with Berth Milton junior, accounter of the company, to who he has explained the true version of this interview. First I was very angry but the son told me " Bravo, you have got the impossible, I am speechless of this performance, at the end of the year my father will retired and I'll be the boss.
Give me your phone, I will need someone like you ..."

_____


And about Larry Flynt it's also not the chance but i'll explain it another day ...

So I consider this sentence

You always need to get yourself into situations of possible positive outcome, that is how "luck" happens. If you don't play, you don't win.

is absolutely the truth ...

PW

PIERRE WOODMAN wrote: NOT EXACTLY !!! the only lucky part was to be at the place where this beautiful girl ( later my second wife ) came that day !!!

Yes this is enough luck.
and come on bro you can say whatever you want but you can't deny you have been very lucky in your life..
Here you're basically telling the story of how you met the people who have been important in your life.
Ok..you have been very lucky too meet those people.

In bali a cop wanted to kill you and after you avoid the death you discovered that you would have been dead in the plane crash.
if you weren't unlucky at this time you were in a coffin.
You're a lucky man.
I'm not saying you're not talented..
I appreciate some of your movie.even if they are a remake of important movies (for example cape town is a remake of cape fear)
but talent without luck is nothing..

About facing the death, yes actually 62 times I was at 1 mm to die and on this I must agree I was very lucky until now ( finger crossed ) !!!

PW

PIERRE WOODMAN wrote:About facing the death, yes actually 62 times I was at 1 mm to die and on this I must agree I was very lucky until now ( finger crossed ) !!!

PW

Yes bro, and don't forget the risk of going to jail in some communist shithole..

But as I said in one of my former threads, don't forget about your karma
Luck is very strange..sometimes comes sometimes abandones you